Thursday, June 26, 2008

Dont be too Serious

Life is worth living for, so have fun while still young!..right?

Don't take it to serious, for the things happen in you life. All you need is to enjoy!.In this cruel life, still there are times that we feel so grateful. There are moments that we thank God for having this opportunity, for this breathtaking life. Thank You God!..

Inspite of the difficulties I encountered, still I'm thankful because I met, different people. I’m so much appreciative for what I have received and for the things that I will obtain from God. I’m so blessed by God, because I have my organization named Zaphenath Paneah which glorifies God by performing His Words as well as to my family who support me in my needs, specially my parents which are the instruments of God in having me here on earth. And to my boyfriend who cares for me and love me for the rest of our life. Indeed, Thanks to our God!

Be a Blogger

Me as a blogger, invited my classmate to be one of the bloggers here in davao. So they are now registering in a different blog host. Express your feelings, emotion and opinion towards life. Hoping they will continue to update their blogs about the stories of life, lovelife as well as their relationship among others. Also their hobby and fun stuff. Hoping I can read from them unique topics. Continue to post anything interesting topics in your blogsite. God Bless to you guyz.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

People Lies

We human get lie and lie. Can we refuse to that bad attitude?

It’s so rude if your special person lies on you, right?

If those things happen to me, I easily get angry, to the point I scream with the words STUPID, YAWA! GAGO!

Right dad?

I really don’t like liar!.. So be aware for that!..

What are the reasons why people do lie but what about white lies?

Is there exemption for that white lie?

Want to know your idea.. Comment now!..

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

From Crush, to Admiration, then Infatuation, till puppy Love lastly, getting In Love!.

How happy life is, when you see your crushes roaming around the campus or seeing him/her in your place?


As I remember during my childhood days, I get easily attracted when I saw cute guys. Sometimes, when I caught my crush looking at me, I can’t help myself screaming, got panic when he is near me, quiver and the beat of my heart palpitates faster. Well, I guess even this stage of my life, I still feel the same way, but sorry guys. I’m Already taken.. :)


Anyways,


What we usually feel, when we see our crushes? How can we determine, if that feeling is infatuation, admiration, puppy love or you are in love?


According in my research here’s the usual feeling when we see special person in our life;


About crushes or infatuation

Uncertainties, overpowering lust, panic, excitement, impatience or jealousy are some of the symptoms of infatuation. Surprisingly some of the feelings during infatuation are the same when you are in love. It might be towards the girl next door, your classmate, best friend, your senior, friend's brother or sister, a teacher, a celebrity, or sister or brothers friends. However at the same time he/she may not be happy with the lingering suspicions and nagging doubts. Some teenagers in infatuation might make their partners uncomfortable by calling them on the phone, doing some funny or nasty tricks to get the attention. On the other hand, the shy lovers may just peep through the window to get a glance or may act like a secret Santa who unnoticeably keeps helping when the partner is in trouble. The recent psychological research depicts that most of these infatuations are bound by sexual intimacy and it ends after a sexual encounter.

About True Love

Love is an agreement written by lovers on non-degradable objects and states that they will be together forever. There will not have any space for jealousy as they move on together. People in love; whisper their most treasured secrets to each other. True lovers mature in age and experience love as a dynamic process that changes or grows simultaneously. They enjoy each other's company, and depend on each other in the deepest crisis over the years. The dreams are built on the same platform and met in the same destination. It brings out the best of an individual thus helping the relationship to flourish to greater heights.

Admiration

Admiration is one of the easiest needs to meet. Just a word of appreciation, and presto, you've made someone's day. On the other hand, it's also easy to be critical. A trivial word of rebuke can set some people on their heels, ruining their day and withdrawing love units at an alarming rate.



Do you agree in my research? Are you in love today? or just a puppy love? Or presently you feel infatuation but sooner you will discover, it is just an admiration.. Determine your feelings now.. :)

Guilty or Ashame?



In what way do people act when they are guilty? How about when they are caught in the act? Can you identify their actions? What if they feel mad? Is it similar reactions when you feel shame? What would be their common actions? Enumerate it.

In my opinion:
1.He/She will snub you when you see each other.
2.He/She will stay away from you.
3.He/She will try to avoid you when both of you are in the same company.
4.He/She will not feel comfortable when you are together.

Agree in my opinion?
And as I research in the internet here are the common reactions: (http://www.beyondintractability.org/essay/guilt_shame/)

1. People can feel ashamed, unworthy, or embarrassed about actions for which they are responsible. Feeling guilty for events which are out of our control is often unproductive and detrimental.
2. Guilt, because it emphasizes what someone did wrong, tends to elicit more constructive responses, particularly responses which seek to mend the damage done.
3. Guilt is tied to beliefs about what is right and wrong, moral and immoral. When we violate one of these moral guidelines, it causes us to feel guilty over our actions and seek to fix what we have done (see cognitive dissonance).
4. As a result, guilt is an important tool in maintaining standards of right and wrong in individuals and society as a whole. As such, guilt can often be used as a tool to overcome conflict.



To be continue, lack of time!..

Monday, June 23, 2008

Thumbs up before but now thumbs down!



When I met you, I admired you for being so professional. But I guess Im wrong!.. 
You’re acting like a kid. And at your age you must be matured enough to think and to decide, whether things are good or not. Don't blame others for what problems you may encounter, because you are the one who is involve for that situation. And things happen for a reason and struggles come your way for you to be strong enough to face and to solve it!. There's a saying "Don’t do unto others, what others don't want to do unto you!" Internalize that words and apply it into your daily living. You have your God and I know, He wont let you down. Peace be with you!..

Saturday, June 21, 2008

One Way Jesus

Be blessed by God with His song.


One Way
by Hill Song


I lay my life down at your feet,
cause you're the only one I need
I turn to you and you were always there.
In troubled times it's You i seek,
I put you first thats all I need,
I humble all i am all to You!

CHORUS:
One Way Jesus, You're the only one that I could live
For.
One Way Jesus, You're the only one that I could live
For.

You are always, always there. Every how and
everywhere
Your grace abounds so deeply within me
You will never ever change, yesterday today the same
Forever 'til forever meets no end

CHORUS

BRIGDE:
You are the way the truth and the life.
We live by faith and not by sight for you. We're
living all for
You!

Always

A good song for the couple who are in love!. Hoping this song, reflects our relationship. Hear the song!.. and internalize it.

Always
by Atlantic Starr


Girl you are to me
All that a woman should be
and I dedicate my life to you, always
A love like yours is rare
It must have been sent from up above
and I know you'll stay this way, for always

And we both know
That our love will grow
and forever it will be you and me
Ooh, You're like the sun
Chasing all the rain away
When you come around
You bring brighter days
You're the perfect one for me
and you forever will be
and I will love you so, for always

Come with me my sweet
Let's go make a family
and they will bring us joy for always
Oh boy I love you so
Can't find enough way to let you know
But you can be sure, I'm yours, for always
(repeat chorus)

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Leaving on a Heartache

For the Few days, I don’t feel comfortable of my self.
Ask why? because for three consecutive nights, I cry for some useless reasons. My boyfriend told me; that maybe it is because of my period that’s why I act stupid. But gratefully that’s the only time that I expressed my feelings And Letting it out through crying. And it helped me so much because right now, I feel free and i have peace of mind. One of the reasons why I cried, because I’m insecure. Do I have to be insecure? Dahhh!.. And sad to say I don’t know why & to whom I got insecure with. Dahhh!.. What a heck! Hahaha.. I also feel alone.  At that night all I want is to cry and be hug by God. That moment I considered myself as an emo, so emo.. waaahhhh… Well, all of us are emo...right?. hehehe.. Dah.. so much for that!. Crying moment was about for an hour only. I got relaxed when my boyfriend told me “Kaya nimo na oi, Naa lang ko dri kung dili nimo kaya, kung kailangan nimo og back up!” hehehe.. How sweeeetttt!..hehehe.. Thank God for giving me a man like him!. Thank you..